But just because a lot of women haven’t doubled their pleasure with faux peen, doesn’t mean you should skip this sexual adventure
“The average heterosexual woman tends to reserve dildos for masturbation,” says sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First. You can use them in everything from intense G-spot stimulation to prostate massage and double penetration. Intrigued?
If You’re Sleeping with a Man The first step is talking to your guy about the idea, since you’re probably more familiar with dildos than he is. Bring up the topic by describing your vision for how you want to get that sexy hunk of plastic involved, says Kerner. For example, one of Kerner’s clients told her partner that she fantasized about the feeling of being filled vaginally while he went down on her.